Week 10 Weight of the World Analysis
Why is there so much pressure to succeed? What is the cost of failure? Failure has social stigma like the articles discussed in this section. Many times students have low self of esteem, depression, anxiety because they fail and they feel like they cannot fail. An example of this discussion is from “Paradise Lost.” Nadine is a student at the French school Verlaine her hopes are dashed to become a photographer because she is required to take sciences classes. The sciences classes are to do well to get into the university system for photography. She is not very strong in math or science and her grades are very low. She decides to repeat the year, but in repeating the year her grades in math and science are even lower because of the stress of repeating the year. Nadine’s dreams of being a photographer are dashed. “She also felt the full force of failure since for her the science was more a transition which had to be made and somehow kept her from making a timely adjustment of her expectations to her opportunities”(446).
At this time too she did not realize that she needed assistance because in the past she could succeed on her on, but in the end the end she needed the help. In each of these interviews with Claire, Nadine, and Muriel have felt like they do well in classes they are passionate about like the literature classes offered. These students are required to take sciences classes because these sciences classes have more prestige for future career opportunities and teachers push the sciences classes on the students. In the interviews with these students speak about the lack of assistance. Are there measures being taken on to assist the students’ needs? The response to this is it seems the measures being taken are far and few because the students feel at the Verlaine they want to weed students in order to have a school of elite and prestige students. Is the correct behavior of an institution? This kind behavior does put students in isolate and lonely states of existence and extreme anxiety about failure.
One of the other articles I read and want to comment on is the "Solitude" by Gabrielle Balazs. The article and interview directly relates to our project. It is interesting to hear this story of Louise B. who is 80 years old and retired from social work. A profession where other people’s problems are her solely concern. Louise has difficulty looking out for herself. Because of her age Louise does recognize she cannot do things by herself anymore. She realizes her need for dependency on others, but she does not want burden others with her problems. Therefore she chooses to deal with them on her own and the end the end prefers to be in a retirement home, where people can visit here . From this article it seems that she is content to be in solitude. As the author continues in her findings, “she rapidly buries the lucidity that would kill her under the cascade of reassuring affirmations: “I have friends,” “I have caring people around,” “I am lucky” (600).
It is the best interest of Jesus followers to take these kinds of conclusions into consideration extending a hand to someone that is hurting or lonely providing an alternative to loneliness. One thing that Louise may need is someone to bestow kindness and love to her and letting her know that she is included in a loving community not out of burden, but out a building relationship with her. Someone like me can glean what she has learned and experienced in her life.
